OH SNAP....... HELLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!?

i live in a horrible town called derby with losers that wake up and do the same routine day in day out and my best mate is moving away to spain in june, and he wants me to go with him what shall i do, however all my family is here.. no job here..and no full on boyfriend however one love interest that could be the potential one for me but hes 42 and im 21 and he has kids near enough my age, so it might not work im not sure any help much appreciated..! thanks :D